Can We Change our Habits?

An executive asked me a question at a lunch talk this week: How could she stop speaking too quickly? Her phrasing was full of doubt. She’d had feedback, she’d tried to slow down, but nothing worked. Yet as she spoke, she slowed down. She articulated every word...

The Curious Case of the Question

Have you ever questioned your questioning?   If a fly on the wall were to observe you in conversation, what would that fly say about the way you engage, your style or your tone? What about your approach to asking questions? Here’s what most people do: Frame...